Second Chances or Closure?

December 23, 2009 Sasha Jones
Tags: Breaking Up, Relationships, Second Chances

It’s a pretty good day today The sun’s out and I’m feeling slightly complacent. No contact from him yesterday, and it’s noon of Day 2, still nothing as of yet. Not gonna get my hopes up for anything.. just gonna let it ride until I decide it’s been long enough and it’s time for me to get the closure I need for me. I was actually pretty proud of myself, I didn’t cry one tear yesterday. Pretty decent enough I’d say. I still have him on my mind and I know I don’t want to let him go, but I also know I deserve better. One more chance…. one more chance is all I have left in me to give him. Had a dose of Male advice last night that really helped. Told me that he isn’t necessarily saying I should call it quits yet, but from what he’s seeing, there’s something definitely going on. And he thinks maybe it can be that he’s still in love with someone else that he isn’t with but may be still in contact with. And that he has feelings for me but they come & go with his feelings for whomever that person may be. Or he could be juggling me & another person at the same time. And this is something he think may be going on. I never thought of this exactly in that detail but it isn’t a far fetched idea. So in my “closure email” I will confront that without being confrontational and lay out everything. I’ll be blunt, direct & honest. Then in the end,  offer him the opportunity to meet up & discuss where we go from here, but only on his reaching out to me. And if he chooses not to respond I said I will respect his wishes and be done with him. Still deciding on how far to extend my timeline. I would say 1 week is long enough. So I’ll wait until after Christmas. That’ll give it enough time. Longer than a week is ridiculous to me. So, that’s my plan and hopefully maybe something good will come out of it. Can’t go into the New Year with baggage.

Entry Filed under: Breaking Up,Love & Relationships

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